I have said this before but it more than deserves repeating – I did not achieve my success in life without many nurturing, loving people helping me along every step of the way.
My first motivation in music
Looking back, I remember the first girl I tried very hard to impress back in fifth grade and her name was Amarie Rockey. If she had not entered a certain talent contest at Sunny Brae Elementary School, I might have never learned any instrument and my life would have gone in a completely different direction.
Thanks, Dad
From the beginning, I gained much of my boldness from my father. I still remember my dad’s audacious phone call to Professor Jettel, then the principal clarinetist of the Vienna Philharmonic. After one minute on the phone, he asked Prof. Jettel if he would give me clarinet lessons. In baseball terms my father might as well have called Sandy Koufax, Hall of Fame Pitcher of the Los Angeles Dodgers, to teach me to become a more successful pitcher!
Rudolf Serkin
I think also of Rudolf Serkin, one of the greatest pianists of the 20th century, who became the Director of the Curtis Institute of Music after my first year there. Mr. Serkin was responsible for many steps forward in my life, providing me (actually providing ALL the students at Curtis) opportunities in chamber music which for me led to the formation of the Aulos Wind Quintet – we won the Naumburg Competition in NYC. Winning the Naumburg Competition (with the Emerson Quartet, 1978) enabled us to commission John Harbison to write his now famous “Quintet.” Then came the Orpheus Chamber Orchestra and eventually Grammy Awards, along with 70 recordings for Deutsche Grammophon.
Unique opportunity
Mr. Serkin also invited me to the Marlboro Music Festival where we performed and recorded a Max Reger Sonata together. Mr Serkin could have recorded with any clarinetist in the world, yet he chose me. It is difficult to imagine how I would have had the same opportunities of performing with the greatest musicians at both the Marlboro Music Festival and in NYC without Mr. Serkin’s guiding presence and influence.
Love matters
I am grateful for Barbara Greco, wife and dear friend from childhood, who brought so much love, comfort, happiness and security to my life at a time when I desperately needed it, until her passing in 2017. Today, I am so blessed to be with my wife, Barb Thorne Singer, who has been my rock in so many ways. Barb is my Go-To in all matters regarding From Cab Driver to Carnegie Hall and has been a kind and loving partner who continues to make my life and future something worth looking forward to. I strive to be as good a husband for her.
It takes a village
I also want to thank Deryn Riggs for his talents assisting and inspiring me with ideas writing my blog. With his partner, Laura Singer (my daughter!) I want to thank you both for continuing to create opportunities for me and us to reach a bigger audience. Laura, thanks also for your great work on the website!
I appreciate the time and energy that we have, with Barb and my sister, Deborah, working together on this labor of love. More about Deborah at a later time.
Space does not allow me to mention everyone who has made a difference in my life, but here is a partial list of dear friends and family who have been an inspiration and have helped me, especially emotionally, through some very tough times. These dear family and friends appear in no particular order: Ellen Faulk, Sharon Darnov, Allen Darnov, Morrie Darnov, Norman Sadofsky, Lisa Febre, Rodney Punt, Heidi Lehwalder, Hans Boepple, Arthur van Gelder, Brian Feinblum, Alexis Humes, Betty Oberacker.
David Singer
David Singer, Grammy Award-Winning Professional Musician for 55 years
Author of “From Cab Driver to Carnegie Hall“
www.singerclarinet.com
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